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Kelly Williams's avatar

Whoa. Beth. If I had a highlighter I would have underlined every sentence. I especially liked the “making ourselves more coherent for people to sell to us” line. And- because I can’t help myself- I immediately thought of the proliferation of microtrends. Like “Mermaid Mother” happening right now is a way to package the trends for the summer and sell them to us under a “vibe” or a character we can inhabit for the day/week/month/season. Am I totally guilty of this too? Hell yes, but also wow.

PS- the quote from the book written in 2000 is eerily accurate even 25 years later.

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Ha petition to build Kelly a special highlighter. Agree re MM. And agree re that 2000 book...so much has changed in those 25 yrs but also, has it...x

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Lo's avatar

this is a great piece! your'e absolutely right it feels so dystopian right? is it peak capitalism? I ditched my Apple Watch I didn't want ANOTHER thing telling me what to do or how badly I'm doing. I certainly dont want an Oura ring, recently I feel super rebellious. I want people to be themselves and not try to categorise themselves as if they were a product!

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Rebellious is a word I keep hearing from interesting ppl like you. This whole thing is so interesting!!

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Lo's avatar

I have been inspired to come up with some ridiculous personality test that I can make money from - ha! but that is not something I would do as its gross, be yourself, you don't need an algorithm to tell you who you are and what you like. I just like what I like. I see all this nonsense like 'mob wife' or 'coastal grandma' and I think please just be YOU

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Ohhh yes. If you haven’t seen this, it might ring your bells https://patternrecognitionbytomorrowism.substack.com/p/is-the-algorithm-making-us-less-stylish

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Bob Kenney's avatar

Excellent! Some great insights.

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Beth Bentley's avatar

thanks Bob!

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Kaitlyn Pacheco's avatar

This is fascinating — the global “personality assessment solution” market stats floored me! I’d be curious to see if there’s any data/analysis linking this current surge for self-understanding (through capitalism) with the rising national and global unrest — seems connected somehow!

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Oh almost certainly. That is a great parallel. You should write this!!

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Kaitlyn Pacheco's avatar

Adding to the never-ending topic list :)

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Hahaa

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Rebecca Healy's avatar

Had to give a shout-out for quoting Zygmunt Bauman and his book Liquid Modernity which helped me SO much to understand the world we live in today.

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Hi fellow ZB reader! Agree agree agree with you.

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Camila C's avatar

LOVE this piece! Wow!

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Beth Bentley's avatar

Tysm!

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Emily K's avatar

Fantastic piece!

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Beth Bentley's avatar

tysm!

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